Purpose

There is no purpose but that which we make for ourselves*. Without getting into the deeper implications of "purpose and intention", a simple question which asks "why does this site exist?" may be answered similarly.

Prose exists so that I do not forget again. Its intention is to facilitate a greater degree of accuracy in referential recall, for my own purposes, and to share one person's experiences via photos and writings about where the many actions took me along the way over the years. Sometimes looking back, sometimes in observation on the Now, and to a lesser degree there are thoughts towards a future and how that would feel.

Still though, Why?

Because of the coma, and the life-support machines, and everything involved with rebuilding cognition after coming back to life. There are years of events which may never be recalled, whole sections of life which I'll never fully remember having lost. Perhaps it's better that way, but I will never know in either case.

Priorities shifted, and now the freight train never stops. Sleep is difficult, rest can be fleeting, both bringing a challenging reality to the oft' heard phrase, "I'll sleep when I'm dead." Most people don't know how that feels, and I do not think they would use it if they did. Oh, but to rest in the nothingness of the Void, so close to the completeness of the Next Phase.

Perhaps this morning is a useful example, a reflection-stream of consciousness from commonalities in most any given day.

Now in another room, my husband's placid dream-state breathing can be heard amidst the calm nothingness of our domicile, one of so many through which we've transited over the years since my arisen-state, this new life began. I never want to forget this beautiful realm, its struggles and trials, kuschelig-weich süße küsse, the hugs and naps and complexities of corporate decision-trees too, the everything of being, in its infinitesimal grandiosity and minutia of glory from Hashem or the mountain gods too, perhaps? My spirituality cannot be named, categorized, dogmatized; it is this everything of every day and every time I close my eyes to drift back into the nothingness of the Void; it's always there, carrying me, calling for an eventual return, but not right now - give me one more day.

Time and Timelessness

So then, this site is in some ways a grasp on the finite experience of time. A catalogue of imagery and concepts and concerns and emotions which exist only for temporary purposefulness, or ultimately meaninglessness. I'm not sure which, but here we are, and often times it's just for the simple enjoyment of writing. A game which my mind plays with grammatical phrases, of equations and variables made of linguistics, of inference driven convolutional intentionality from the temporal lobes and dopaminergic pathways.

Since waking up those many years ago, a commonality of mind has been to focus on the present as much as possible; an exercise in occasional futility combined with a mostly Zen aligned stateful-detachment. Day-to-day now involves a meditative awareness of the senses while distanced cognition-threads process a long-held buffer of parasympathetic nervous system synapse firings and neurotransmitter floods and waves and queues. I am tangibly here, but the call/response functions are programmed in a different way, their old arrangement of methods and modes no longer present or accessible in memory.

From the Void

From the void you awaken, into this body from which consciousness departed some lifetime ago. Inside the void all is null, an absence of existence, sensory nothingness, until the timelessness becomes a single photon of light. In an unknown span of time it expands, drawing consciousness back into the this shared realm of existence, back into the world of the living. From that void, an endless timeless realm where pain does not exist, the conscious mind "awakens", and as it does the senses begin to scream in electrical amperage everywhere there is Aware.

The light expands and becomes the world, gaining contrast, and with that light appear shapes and structures with0ut color. At first all is gray-scale, until slowly color dawns upon the senses, eventually distance and depth are concepts once-more, but there is no other sensory world. Scent, sound, touch, space and time, all remain back in the void.

Burning Searing Oxygen

Emotions, that conceptual link between awareness based feedback loops and knowledge of experiences did not come back immediately, if only to say that there was one binding sensory flood of continuity: anger laced despair. When the conscious mind re-appeared sufficiently to respond to its awareness of circumstance, the first thing I noticed was the burning of oxygen in my lungs - fed by tubes from the respirator machine, controlled by computer at the bedside.

Next was the burning in my neck, where the tubes were routed into a stoma - not through my mouth or nose, with a second incision crudely sewn two inches higher in the tracheal zone. An EMT had to slice open my throat for respiration, and through one set of vocal chord nerves the scalpel went, an emergent surgery on the floor in the dark of night. Only later, at the ER/OR was the stoma incised, the vertically sliced tracheal chasm zig-zaggedly sewn. The nerves never healed, and so my voice is soft but often fails, worn out as the day progresses. One set of muscles doing the work of two, but often not sufficient for anything at all.

Over time the senses came alive, mostly to their former capacity, except for memory. With memory it comes in chunks, as though an array is rebuilding, scanning, but often finding nulls. Short term memory was gone, with the weeks prior to the coma almost entirely missing from recall. Over time, STM Consolidation - the process by which our brains receive sensory data and filter/sort/prioritize aspects and elements and concepts of time from short to medium-term, then assessing into long-term memory. That process has improved with specialized medication and meditation, though this is a neuroscience topic for another day.

And The Everything Else

In the earliest days of return, as my head would nod-off in a morphine haze (so much pain), the autonomic system would take over, and one or two hands would immediately race to attempt their forever game: trying to tear the hoses out of the stoma in my neck. Surely, that did not go over well with the ICU staff, and eventually whenever my tired eyes would drift, a nurse would restrain my wrists to prevent the next attempt.

Of course, I couldn't speak with the hoses in there, and once they were eventually out I still couldn't speak; either the brain didn't remember how or the nerves controlling the voice box wouldn't connect to the muscles - either due to pain or due to half of them being severed. Eventually I would relearn how to speak, in a long and painful process over months, though it still fails on a near daily basis. I can deal with that, but having lost most of my recollection of Germanic expression required far more recovery.

Walking, all gone. Dexterity by hand, also gone. Balance, certainly gone.

The first time I was able to pull my legs over the side of the bed, while holding onto a nurse, the nanosecond either foot struck the ground, lightning surged upward — through the femur, spiraling along the thoracic spine, climbing into cervical vertebrae, and erupting through the cerebellum and corpus callosum, detonating across the cerebral cortex. There was no thought, no other sensation; existence narrowed to one unbearable truth: PAIN.

Electrical Signaling

In medical research and case studies there is a distinct lack of detail from patient perspectives on the topic of this process: awakening the somatosensory network of the Central Nervous System after a flatlined coma, not a medically induced coma, and not a short term coma. The CNS is an electrical system foremost, followed by chemical messenger pathways, both interwoven in a complexity which science has yet to fully model or simulate.

Part of not being able to walk, or to hold things, to speak, was the sheer inability for my brain to process the electrical signals unmoderated, ungoverned; in short, the signals were shorting out the sensory and processing equipment. Without sufficient memory the simplest actions and abilities are devoid of action.

Healing Processes

Part of the physical healing process was one of intense and ongoing patience and more patience and endless patient patient patience and more of being both concurrently in what seemed to be an endless forever. I was not a patient child; this was my least tuned skillset, but it is now my most etched-in-stone capacity, though everyone surely has their limits.

Sense of smell was deemed the least critical, as determined by whatever engines were managing the recovery process. Light sensitivity never stopped being a problem, to which no doctor has had answers. All of these abilities, so often and so easily taken for granted by so many, they form the foundation - the core of a person's interactions with their world, and with those senses we define existence, what it means to be alive, what it means to engage with others, and by eventual extrapolation what it means to find and have purpose and meaning and definition and identity.

Referential Integrity

The ability to confirm the integration of data into the whole - not only a unit as its unique entry - but with its reference to which all else maintains interrelated definitions; Referential Integrity is not solely a term from the database engineering world, it is a way to see how the brain shapes the Self, how it infers meaning minute by minute from the individual experience with relationships (comparative, contrasting) to the whole of the experience. Our brains are processing and defining and redefining all of our sensory inputs trillions of times per day, moving memory chunks around according to some grander-than-awareness algorithm which necessitates the conversion of short term events into long term storage for retrieval years or decades later. This fascinating biological computer is the most beautiful and capable equipment which our species has ever come across - and so gods help me if I ever take that for granted in any breath until my last. The void is not going anywhere, it's there always and forever, that much is knowable in my experience. So then, what purpose is there? The question has no definitive or singular notion to provide an answer; purpose is evolving and changing at all times, until there is nothing left.

Finally then..

So, philosophy of death and meaning and all of that... in any case, Prose is a site for reflections upon a woven existence, one which has routinely provided awakenings into substantially altered facets of bicameral perceptions. These descriptions may not resonate with many, though this is not a site for mass consumption or awareness, and so that is okay.

In part, this site is an archive for those memories of fleeting years gone by, of present experiences which sooner than realized will forever and perpetually become that passing of time. Memories are a complex game, a puzzle of neurons - firing and transporting their transmitters to waiting receptors, remnants of the Central Nervous System's programming as it was trained, over time and years - consciously and otherwise.. but that's a story for another page, at another time.

[*] Unless there is no Free Will, in which case Causal Determinism implies that our consciousness correlates sentience as the role of an observer more so than one of pre-defined actional executor.